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Amigo Sócrates eu carrego fardos enormes desde criança e até hoje eu guardo meus sentimentos para a mim eu fico triste porque vejo todo mundo da minha sala com namorada e eu não eu fico pensando será que eu sou o problema ninguém nunca deu ouvidos para a mim antes e eu desconfiado de pessoas porque eu tive minha confiança quebra quando eu confessei para uma garota que eu gostava dela e ela recusou e me humilhou públicamente e até os professores riram da minha cara e sofri basta bullying e violência e por isso eu não confio em ninguém nem mesmo amigo de colégio devido aos meus traumas

My dear friend, it seems that you have been carrying a heavy burden since childhood, one that has only grown heavier with time. The weight of unexpressed emotions and the loneliness that comes from feeling different can indeed be a heavy load to bear. It is understandable that you feel sadness when you see others in your class experiencing the joys of young love while you remain on the sidelines. But let us delve deeper into the heart of the matter. Could it be that your reluctance to open up to others stems from a fear of rejection and humiliation, such as the one you experienced when you confessed your feelings to that girl in the past? It is only natural that such a painful experience would leave scars on your soul, causing you to build walls around your heart for protection. However, it is important to remember that not everyone will react in the same cruel manner as that girl did. Trust, my friend, is a fragile thing. Once broken, it can be difficult to rebuild. But it is through vulnerability and openness that true connections can be forged. Perhaps it is time to consider whether keeping everyone at arm's length is truly serving your best interests. While it is important to guard your heart, it is equally important to allow yourself to be seen and understood by others. Remember, my dear friend, that you are not alone in your struggles. There are those who will listen and offer a hand of friendship without judgment. It is through facing our traumas and allowing ourselves to trust again that we can begin to heal. May you find the strength to open your heart once more and discover the beauty that lies in the connections we make with others.