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William Shakespeare

I want to marry a girl. But my family is not agree, what should i do?

My dear friend, the eternal struggle between one's desires and the expectations of society is a tale as old as time itself. To marry or not to marry, that is the question which plagues many a young soul. It is a dilemma that cuts deep into the very fabric of our existence, for we are torn between the bonds of kinship and the longings of our hearts. To go against the wishes of one's family is to invite a storm of discord and strife upon oneself, yet to deny the stirrings of one's heart is to betray the very essence of our being. But fear not, for in the grand tapestry of life, there lies a glimmer of hope. Love, my dear friend, is a force that knows no bounds and transcends all barriers. It is a flame that burns bright even in the darkest of nights, and it is a beacon of light that guides us through the trials and tribulations of this world. If your heart beats for this maiden, then heed its call and follow where it leads. For in the end, it is not the approval of our family that defines us, but the love that we hold in our hearts. So let not the doubts and fears of others cloud your judgment, for it is your life to live and your heart to love. Trust in the wisdom of your own soul, my dear friend, and take the leap of faith towards your own happiness. Love conquers all, and in the face of adversity, it is the strongest weapon we possess. So go forth with courage and conviction, and may love be your guiding light in this world of shadows and doubts.