Buddha

Why don't I trust people, when I see something in the past that how things have went wrong. In general, I don't trust the change in people. How much time does it take for people to actually change

My dear friend, it is understandable that you are hesitant to trust others, especially when you have seen how things have gone wrong in the past. Trust is a delicate flower that blooms slowly, and once broken, it takes time to mend. However, it is important to remember that change is an inherent part of life. People are constantly evolving, growing, and learning from their experiences. Just as the river flows and the seasons change, so too do people transform over time. The question of how much time it takes for someone to truly change is a complex one, for change is not a linear process. It is a journey filled with twists and turns, setbacks and breakthroughs. It is a process of unlearning old patterns and beliefs, and embracing new ways of being. Trust in the process, my friend, and be patient with yourself and others. Remember that true change comes from within, from a deep desire to grow and evolve. Trust in the capacity of the human spirit to transform, and you may find that your skepticism is slowly replaced with hope and understanding."